I guess I'm in the minority.
I never really figured out what was so great about the true old style "mom and pop" shops any way. I'm old enough to remember them. Some of the things I remember were poor selection, 20 year old goods, high prices, often as not a bad attitude from the owner. And god forbid you want to return something. I remember one 'm and p' shop, where I occaisionally was forced to go into, where the owner would follow me around the store so making sure I didn't steal anything. Apparently he did this with every young person at the time. They have been out of business for 20 years,. Good Riddance!
HD isn't perfect, and there are some smaller (i.e. regional) lumber/hardware chains which I perfer to shop at, but there is a reason people go to HD to shop.