I am reading "Finishes & Finishing Techniques" by Fine Woodworking. They recommend using a grain filler for oak, and suggests dark to emphasis the grain.
So I bought some Behlen's Water-based brown grain filler, sanded, applied, and sanded again per directions on one half of a piece of red oak. I then put on some Spainish Oak stain and two coats of poly on the whole piece.
The grain is more striking on the treated side, and they seem to reflect light differently, but that is about it. They don't feel any different, or look all that much different. In fact, I kinda like the unfilled more; it is subtler with more variation in the grain coloring. I think the neutral would be nearly identical.
So... what is the difference supposed to be? What I observed, or did I screw up somehow and it is supposed to be completely different? Thanks.