Yes (up to five or whatever you've got it set to).
Unfortunately it depends. If there are any non-whitespace chars earlier on the line, backspace removes one space (Delete is forward delete, BTW, and always just removes one char). If the line only contains whitespace, it deletes back to the previous tab stop.
I did have a word with the developers about that, they said they'd thought about it and decided to do it that way. Anyway I didn't really mind; the important thing was to have a quick way of tabbing across without leaving a trail of tabs, whose width is entirely variable, by definition.
Five, because they're spaces.
Then you'd turn those features off or configure them differently. Personally I'd ban tabs from any software I was responsible for; if you're worried about disk space the file can always be compressed.