Another story about girls. I had a job for the city of NY and I came across a listing of thousands of names, iirc And it had their age and where they lived, and I was tired of meeting girls who lived far away from where I lived in Brooklyn, and some of these lived in walking distance. It also showed whether they were single or not and probably gave their phone number too. Something about the list made a much higher fraction of them single eligible females, than the city as a whole.
If I could have come up with a fool-proof story of why I was calling them, and a way to make it social, and a way to be sure I wouldnt' get caught by work or fired, I would have called one or more, even if it was a betrayal of my job. After all, I know I'm not going to attack one and if she doesn't want to see me, I'm not going to scrare her or anything. But I just continued seeing girls, none of whom were special but who lived far away.