Spent the weekend clearing out my mom's garage before she moves into a smaller place and came across a dusty envelope from the carpenters union. Inside was her original journeyman card, dated 1983. I knew she'd framed houses back in the day but I never really thought about what it took to get that card back then. She told me over dinner that her crew had exactly one other woman on it, and half the guys refused to hand her material off the lift because they were sure she'd drop it.
She said the worst part wasn't the work, it was the portable toilet situation on big sites, so she'd just drive twenty minutes to a gas station on her break. Small detail but it stuck with me. Anyway, I'm getting the card framed for her new place. She rolled her eyes when I suggested it but I could tell she was a little proud of it. Forty years of swings of the hammer and she still squares a corner faster than I do, and I do this for a living.