Cuck (and others), you will find this instructive.
My birthday & mothers birthday recently. Had a family BBQ today @ our place. Had to cater and pay for everything to celebrate my own birthday.
Instructed the family that they are to enjoy a bottle of delicious home brew cider.
No takers.
The old man did manage to polish off the remains of my bottle of Bristol Harvey cream sherry. He had 'a glass', bloody big one though.
He was slightly pissed, but not enough to have a cider chaser. Next time its the cooking sherry for him.
My cousin did however take home 2 tomato plants and a nice delicious bottle of sparkling cider. 'She enjoys it' she says. That might yet become past tense. Time will tell.
rob