Rec.woodworking is a tame little country village in the wide world of usenet newsgroups. Every once in a while some undesirable is going to drive through. In this instance the problem child probably posted from rec.games.pinball. Gandalf Parker and myself are posting from alt.support.diet.low-carb. The original person to blame is the "Ron Grossi" cretin who keeps posting the same diatribe to bunches of newsgroups at a time. These groups (the alt and rec hierarchy) are not moderated. Most ISPs do not yank accounts for language. If they did the internet would have died long ago. If language is really that upsetting to you and your wife, you may be more comfortable in a moderated setting: