After exhausting all leads I could not get a guaranteed Saturday collection. Seller had all sorts of restrictions but basically would only accept a sat collection. Couldnt leave with neighbour. Couldnt leave in a safe place. Couldnt take to a drop off (1 mile) Offered to pay for taxi to drop off.
He now has decided too much hassle and wants to cancel the sale.
I dont think he was happy at the value of my winning bid. just to piss him off I have stopped replying to him as he doesnt know if I have paid for a courier (he asked), will let him stew for a few days as I have 4 weeks to claim for non delivery with ebay, although I dont think that will be an issue as he is desperate to give me my money back.
I do wish when people auction they put a reserve on rather than mess about when they dont get the price they want. I won auction on a £22 bid and it would have resold for probably £130. It was frustrating but I have won and booked collection for another 2 similar items.