I'd be very surprised if what you bought is backwards. I've never seen that Unless you bought the stuff at a dollar store. That's the kind of thing they would sell. (Check out Jay Leno's shopping trips with various mismarked things people send in from dollar stores.)
That said, I never worry about polarity until somthing doesn't work, and it's been 15 or 20 years since something didn't work (that was a trouch tone phone that wouldn't make tones unless it was connected right, or the jack was wrong.)
I suppose if the polarity was reversed between two phones and you held one to your left ear and one to the right, you'd losse a lot of bass. As with stereo speakers. But that hasn't come up.