Well here is where I stand at the moment.
I did call an independent dealer to come out at 6pm Friday to look at the unit. I figured even though the unit is just less then a year old I would have them look at it and eat the cost especially since they do repair Kenmore(carrier) units. The person came out and looked things over. He isolated it to the defrost board, Heat pump/AC unit, but told me he didn't have the part. He did say though that I have a high end unit and didn't feel comfortable messing with it to get it to run as it would void my warranty. He also told me that there is no way to bypass this board to make the unit run. He didn't charge me a penny and felt sorry for me having to deal with Sears. This company is very reputable in the area and I would trust them. Seeing he didn't take a penny from me after coming out at 6pm on a Friday was very good.
So I went back a replaced my call in to Sears repair and hope they can get out on Monday evening. The real issue here I guess is that Sears doesn't have any type of emergency, for me this is an emergency, response where maybe I pay a deductible. Secondly why do they only have one company they deal with in the area. Why not have a backup in case the other person is busy. I think the main company is busy doing new/replacement units which probable pays better then my warranty repair.
Why did I choose Sears to begin with? The free financing for a year of which I just paid it in full last week before payments kicked in. Well I guess I learned a very good lesson here. I know some people made a comment about the fact that we lived many years ago with out a/c but I do have an out of town guest with asthma staying with me and I thought I could keep him comfortable here. Oh well.