You might want to learn why. Maybe someone is ill and can't
conveniently move it, or got called away suddenly and did not think about
Hopefully it does not come to it, but you may want to check locally.
Most places do have limits on how long a car can park on a street. Where I
live it is 24 hours. Well I think it is, I have not checked since I moved
10 years ago to a suburb.
This isn't even a problem yet. If you mention what you've posted to your
neighbor in a friendly manner and they decide they still want to park in
front of your house (which is perfectly legal) then you have a bit of a
Face your fears and go talk to your neighbor. Most likely they have no idea
they are causing a problem and will be happy to park somewhere else when you
inform them they are.
-> -> > My neighbor occasionally parks his car in front of my house.-> > It usually doesn't stay there for long -- maybe a few hours.-> > But as of today he has had his car parked in front of my house-> > for three or four days.-> -> This isn't even a problem yet. If you mention what you've posted to your-> neighbor in a friendly manner and they decide they still want to park in-> front of your house (which is perfectly legal) then you have a bit of a-> problem.-> -> Face your fears and go talk to your neighbor. Most likely they have no idea-> they are causing a problem and will be happy to park somewhere else when you-> inform them they are.
I did and they did.
What a surprise. Two reasonable people having a civil conversation to
settle an annoyance, with no feelings hurt.
Is society so f'ed up that most people didn't think this would work?
Suggestions from lying about why you want it moved to resorting to
throwing nails in front of your house (by a loving, caring RN no
less!). Glad to see everybody's people's skills are up to date!
Don't do anything but be direct. Just say, "I value you as a neighbor. I
think you would help me in most any situation."
And then proceed to ask if he would please not leave the car there because
it causes problems with the mailman and the elderly lady. Say you are
concerned that the elderly lady or the mailman might damage his classic car.
You might even stretch it a bit and say that you have seen them come close
on a couple of occasions. It wouldn't be much of a stretch, if they're
anything like my mailman or elderly neighbor.
Chances are, you will get what you want and still keep the good
Don't be evasive and put the blame on someone else. Children do that.
Adults go straight to the problem, approach it politely, and stay to the
If he is an adult, he will respond positively.
If he isn't, it will just be a matter of time before the car gets damaged,
and you will have been the one who said it might happen.
I once had a neighbor who parked - one time - on the street directly
across the narrow street from my driveway. He also had a garage and
driveway and NEVER had parked on the street. The nasty, rainy evening I
was in a hurry to go pick up one of my children and pulled out - BAM!
Police officer remarked that the fender I hit was packed with Bondo. As
rare luck would have it, my insurance lapsed that day at noon. Ins. co.
never got my check. Never had trouble with mailing payments other than
that one time :o) I got a nasty letter from the state about bond or
something, paid his bill very promptly. Scared spitless. Few days
after I paid his damages (100# of Bondo :o) there was a new washer and
dryer delivered to his house. car never repaired :o)
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Check with your local laws. I had a problem somewhat like yours. My
neighbor across the street parked his 4dr F150 in front of his house but
also in front of my driveway. He had a double driveway, his wife parked
their but he never did. I asked him nicely if he wouldn't park there.
the streets are narrow and I had a hard time getting out of my driveway
with my truck. He laughed and continued to park there. This neighbor was
always calling the cops on kids.
I asked the cops one day if it was legal. They said yes in this
unincorporated area, but not in the city.
The problem was solved one night when he came home drunk at 2 am , got
in a fight with his wife. jumped in the truck floored it backwards.
Thank goodness he turned the wheel. He would have pushed my truck right
through my livingroom. He uprooted a 40ft tree between the sidewalk
and the street and my mailbox His truck wond up on top of the tree. Tow
truck driver would not pull it off because of property damage. Cops came
he made his wife say she was driving. It was all on tape from a
neighbor, they knew she wasn't driving.
Moral of the story. He never parked there again across the street from
I got the last laugh , I got a check from his ins. co. for $450 for a
tree I wanted out anyway but couldn't afford to have it done.
And the county came and cleared it away at no cost.
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Say something like: "You're like the nicest neighbor I've ever had, and
the smartest, so I can't figure out why you always park right there, is
there some reason?"
Always throw in more positive than neg and it will be fine.
If all this friendly action fails, ask again holding a
can of gasoline and a lighter.
Did anyone even ask if he has currently ANYTHING parked in
front of his own home???
I had a similar problem with my neighbor, she LOVES parking her
car in front of my house (not really much of an issue) but her
car is a real piece of sh*t and leaks worse than the EXXON Valdez.
You havent seen oil slicks from a car until you've seen this one.
In any case instead of directly confronting her, I simply started
my own cars in the street. (I have three) Slowly I started inching my
way back and sure enough, she knows that I park my cars now
in front of my home and she parks hers in front of hers.
(mind you my neighbor didnt even park EVER in their own driveway)
She's as friendly as ever and didnt even have to directly confront her
about it. Once in awhile she's back only because the landscapers
come and park directly in front of her own home. No biggie with that.
Later on she moves it back.
-> If all this friendly action fails, ask again holding a-> can of gasoline and a lighter.-> -> Did anyone even ask if he has currently ANYTHING parked in-> front of his own home???
Actually he doesn't, but his house is on a curve in the street, so
I don't blame him.
-> I had a similar problem with my neighbor, she LOVES parking her-> car in front of my house (not really much of an issue) but her-> car is a real piece of sh*t and leaks worse than the EXXON Valdez.-> You havent seen oil slicks from a car until you've seen this one.-> -> In any case instead of directly confronting her, I simply started-> parking-> my own cars in the street. (I have three) Slowly I started inching my-> way back and sure enough, she knows that I park my cars now-> in front of my home and she parks hers in front of hers.-> (mind you my neighbor didnt even park EVER in their own driveway)
I only have one vehicle and a really big driveway.
-> She's as friendly as ever and didnt even have to directly confront her-> about it. Once in awhile she's back only because the landscapers-> come and park directly in front of her own home. No biggie with that.-> Later on she moves it back.-> -> Tom
Well, you could agitate with your local lawmakers to limit parking to a
certain number of hours, or even to ban it completely on the grounds
that the street is too narrow. If his parking is within the limits of
current law, there really is no right way to approach him without
appearing unreasonable, because your desire is inherently unreasonable.
Asking someone to limit their legal use of a public resource is really
out of line.
If your could articulate some concrete benefit -- like you wanted the
spot for your own car, which has to be *somewhere* on the street so it
might as well be there -- then you could simply ask for the favour and
owe him one. Do not imagine that concern for the elderly neighbour and
the letter carrier represents a real benefit; these are shams to cover
up for your control needs. The Post Office is finding your mailbox just
fine (hint: it's their job, and there's harder ones than yours), and if
granny can't back out of her driveway without being a hazard, it's time
to take her license away.
But really, Susie, you need to move to a nice controlled community,
like a condo development or a homeowner's association area, where the
rulemakers think like you. In fact I suspect you will find yourself
welcomed into the ranks of the governing committees. Like many people,
you will never be happy in a free society. After you bully your
neighbour into ceasing this perfectly legal behaviour you will find
something else to complain about.
The car, by the way, is a classic, a more sensible person would be
tickled to see it.
On 21-Jun-2005, firstname.lastname@example.org wrote:
Oh please. I suspect very few of us wouldn't get a bit peeved if a neighbor
decided to continually park in front of our house. What's the matter with
the street in front of their house? You feel that because granny across the
street has trouble backing out of her driveway because there is now a car
cutting off her turning radius by 6 feet that she should be denied the
privilege of driving? As opposed to the neighbor parking their car a few
feet further down the road? Sheesh, community is just that, community. And
finding the appropriate balance of compromises that minimizes the
inconvenience the entire community suffers. In this case it's almost
certainly the neighbor parking a few feet down the road.
I put up with a dickhead tenant who lived next door to a previous house
I owned once, who left his pos Vanagan parked there for 2-1/2 months.
Reason? I had a huge old Ash tree in the parkstrip which provided
excellent shade. Boxing him in with our cars didn't matter because he
had no intention of moving it anyway.
After tiring of looking at his pos car out of my living room picture
window I asked him one day to please move it so I could at least sweep
the gutter. He gave me a ration of shit - I gave him 15 minutes to move
it. He slammed his door on me.
15 minutes later a PD officer and a tow truck were 'hooking' it up and
the officer was writing him a ticket. Reason? His tags were over six
months expired and the pos couldn't be in the public right of way. He
begged the cop to let him move it - then. The cop said no and handed him
He had to not only pay the ticket, but also the tow, impound fee and a
days storage to the tow guy, also show proof of current reg and
insurance, etc. Cost him around $400.
He never parked there again and moved about a month later.
On 21 Jun 2005 14:59:02 -0700, email@example.com scribbled this
Yes it is a classic. What year is the car? Is it modified or restored
or original condition and unrestored?
I ask because these things make a difference. Personally, I don't like
parking on the street since I've seen so many cars hit by unobservant
drivers. A poorly maintained Beetle with mismatched fenders and bald
tires and dripping oil isn't really worth all that much, unless it is
of specific year models. If it were such a wreck (which you say it
isn't) I'd say he just didn't care. But this is, by your description,
unusual. Perhaps you could go over and ask if everything is ok? Show
some concern? Tell him you noticed his nice Beetle was parked on the
street for far longer than you've ever seen it there before and you
thought perhaps something had happened. Tell him you are concerned
because someone might hit it and you know he wouldn't want that.
If he takes care of the car well, this is odd behavior. Ask.
(Remove the Primes before e-mailing me)
This one's easy...just buy a major beater for 50 bucks or so and park it in
front of her house. Let the cards fall as they will and she will be forced
to make the first move...If all else fails...donate it and get a write
Ok...just having fun here...I really would not treat my neighbors this
way.....take care all...Ross
I think you have to ignore it unless he makes a practice of it then you have
to get devious because nothing irritates an asshole more than doing to him
as he did to you.
In my neighborhood the law looks askance on vehicles that are "abandoned"
and they define that as parked more than three days. Anyone can complain to
the cops about a vehicle and they come out and red tag it and watch it for
three days before taking action.
The problem with that is that true assholes know all about it and simply
move the car a couple of feet. If he does that he identifies himself as a
true asshole and some people just have him tagged again but quickly remove
the tag so he doesn't see it. That way he gets towed away as he deserves,
never to do it again or even to know what happened.
Of course I would never so that!
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