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I've had the dubious pleasure of lending a PC laptop to a friend in his late 50s, who accepted it with bluster - 'if these kids can ...'. In the last couple of weeks he's been close to tears as I've tried to help him with simple things - shutting down (click Start!), saving documents, opening programs. He needs these skills to get a job, and refuses training. I think he finds the idea of 'school' demeaning - doesn't stop him asking me though ;-). In the end I asked for the laptop back - it was too stressful for us both. He's not daft - he has science and arts degrees. There's just some sort of blockage.
While I was on hols for a month I said he could try my Mac. I showed him how to switch it on and off, and how to launch programmes from the Dock. That's all. He's taken to it immediately - I watched him on it the other day, and while he and I do things differently (I'm still PC polluted), he just zoomed through everything he needed.
Perhaps Dave might be better trying a Mac if training isn't an option?
Rob