SWMBO = She Who Must Be Obeyed --has appeared in this newsgroup now and then if reference to a wife, and the phrase comes from a series of books by Sir John Mortimer.
The creator of the "Rumpole of the Bailey" has died. His death has be announced today, Friday Jan. 16, 2009. Google John Mortimer Death.
(The fictional character Rumpole is a British barrister, or trial lawyer, who argues criminal cases at London's old Bailey courthouse. Rumpole's wife, is the "SWMBO" person.)
British TV's dramatization of some of the short stories staring Leo McKern were well worth watching on PBS in USA. Leo McKern died in 2002. But YouTube has several clips of the Rumpole series.
RIP Sir John.
Phil