I have a 1-1/4" thick 30" x 64" pine desk finished in clear lacquer. Its writing surface is beat up. I'm going to paint it with Behr Red Bark (4c18-1) hi-gloss paint, after I sand, patch and prime it, to match room casing and other furniture I'll paint. I am not considering a clear finish.
A large part of the damage has mostly not broken through the clear surface finish. But these dents are numerous and lengthy. Like a kid skateboarded on marbles. There are some other smallish chips, burns, and dents. I would have to belt sand or power plane too much. . I do not want to undercut all of these with a chisel or get out the Dremel. In that case I'd rather live with the indentations under the paint. They are concave like a marble impression. I'd be fine scuffing them up, but not getting any undercut. That would be creating damage and going in the other direction.
I have read about sanding sealers, paste fillers, etc. I've read about the thick bar top stuff - not here. Nothing is pointing me in the right direction. I've got an old embossed filler stick from Lee Valley. Works great in the microwave. I just use slivers in a small jam jar (~1oz.). Then slice off with blade. I've got filler crayons - too soft. I've got a couple plastic wood in a small can. I've got an old Lee Valley filler/stuff in a tube you kneed and warm with water. I have auto body filler - the two part polyester and styrene resin and hardener stuff. I also have another autobody tube: auto body glazing and spot putty (no mixing). I have Minwax Helmsman i/o spar urethane. I've got a bag o bug bits. I've got Duratite surfacing putty. It also says its plastic, and to only use Duratite solvent if becomes dry, which I don't have. The original can says contains volatile naphtha and acetone. Haven't found out what to use to thin it yet.
When you put your eye down you see depth and too much sanding. Just paint will show these until 12th layer. Some products seem like the right thing at a given time, but not specific for my needs now. I don't care about repetition or the time I'll spend going over and over it again and again with any lacquer or polyurethane-like product, sanding in between coats.
So I don't know what to do. And/or buy. If it were drywall I would know what to do. I'm good at that. I'm hoping I can use one of the autobody products like I would polyfilla. Another suspicion is sanding sealer - I think it may be in the right direction, under primer and paint, though this is a clear product!? Any thoughts