Well, actually, she saw it as such. ;-)
See, when no previous partner has never had the interest to share such things with you, or trust you to do such a thing, when someone does, see you as a 'person' and a true partner in life, apparently that's a 'good thing'.
It did have some unforeseen consequences ...
There we are, a new couple, just got into bed and she pulls out the 'AA Book of the Car' I bought her and just wants further explanation on something ... ;-(
Soon after we first met we needed to get somewhere quickly (catch a shop) and took my motorbike. She really loved it and *she* suggest we get something bigger, so the CG125 went and in came an XT350, ;-)
Once she had been a pillion for a while (and was still loving it), I suggested she took her test and we got her her own bike and again, no one had given her such an opportunity before. And she really loves (loved, arthritis) riding her bikes ... and has even taken herself off a couple of times a couple of hundred miles to stay with her daughter when she was an entertainer at a holiday camp. [1]
I don't think I've ever bought her flowers or chocolates but have bought her accessories for her motorbike. ;-)
I guess because we have both been married before and been though all that bs (never my idea), we are now comfortable as life partners (although we did get married for 'legal simplicity' reasons).
I don't need to do anything to 'get away from the Mrs' (like play golf, go fishing or go up the pub) because she's my mate. ;-)
And I wouldn't be with her if there was any chance of her being 'She who must be Obeyed', as that's not the relationship we wanted.
Cheers, T i m
[1] When she came back from one trip around her 50th birthday to her said she had a confession ... it was that she's had her first tattoo on her shoulder. ;-)