which addiction is harder to get over: orchids or caffeine?

Jan 27, 2008 Last reply: 18 years ago 8 Replies
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Dave Gillingham

Well, put it this way Joanna: Caffeine addiction doesn't need two support newsgroups for fellow sufferers to commune with each other. And sharing the burden certainly makes coping with the addiction more pleasureable. Furthermore, it also brings the lost members back into the…

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Kathy's comment in the WOC thread "If anyone who thinks growing orchids



*isn't* an addiction hasn't answered the Call of the Vendors." made me think of my efforts to battle addictions.

I bought only one new orchid in 2007, which is huge progress considering that there used to be a time when I would _need_ to buy orchids every month, and I couldn't ever buy just one at a time (had to be two or three or four). Alas, when visiting a relative the other weekend I started to persuade her that next time we visit I will buy her an orchid, she seemed reluctant, not wanting the additional burden of having to take care of it, but I tried to press the case that an orchid wouldn't be any burden at all (one orchid isn't, but whoever stops at one? I did not tell her that.). And just this evening I was just thinking that if the miltaniopsis reflowers again this year, I will have to buy more of those, and how I have been neglecting to visit Al's Orchid Greenhouse, and after all that is not very polite to Al who does not deserve that. So I fear I may be heading for a relapse. :-(



I have just begun trying to get myself off of caffeine. So far, not very successfully. I don't think I will be able to go a year with only one coffee (shudder), so far I seem to be having trouble with one coffee per day. I poured myself a second mug as soon as I got into the office yesterday on autopilot, and as soon as the mug was full, I noticed, but by then it was too late, couldn't waste a perfectly good mug of coffee by pouring it out after all, could I? And then today, the major tantrum/meltdown of my two-year old at the shopping mall made me drink a second cup later in the day (just had to). When we got home the watering of orchids soothed my nerves, and it did not seem like a burden after all, and surely another one or two wouldn't make any noticeable difference in the watering burden, right?



So I guess orchid addiction is easier to hold in check than caffeine addiction, or maybe not? Is orchid addiction just a form of shopoholism? Or maybe orchids give out some undetectable but irresistible addictive substance that sinks in through our pores, and reprograms our DNA to whisper "Buy more orchids. Buy more orchids. Buy more orchids."



Joanna



Well, put it this way Joanna: Caffeine addiction doesn't need two support newsgroups for fellow sufferers to commune with each other. And sharing the burden certainly makes coping with the addiction more pleasureable.

Furthermore, it also br>Kathy's comment in the WOC thread "If anyone who thinks growing orchids

Dave Gillingham

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Helloooooooooooo Joanna, Gosh it's been a long time, is it really 2 years? Your baby is two years old already? You know, I was going to start a thread, on "Where Are They now?" You would have been up there on the list. Do you remember a discussion on reasons to buy another orchid & I said to buy a blooming one close to the day your baby was born then it would be a reminder each year. Don't worry about the relapses, if you think the terrible two's are bad, there are things called teenagers! That will be the time you really enjoy your plants! *g* Nice to hear from you so keep in touch. Cheers Wendy (Who is addicted to both orchids & coffee)

Hmm, unfortunately or fortunately I do seem to be into orchids again. Today I put up the grow lights again, so that hopefully I will have more spikes in the fall--the meager results of this season gave me the incentive to do better again. I am still able to resist the pull to buy a new orchid for now, but I fear not for much longer.

Joanna

Why give up coffee? I told my husband to stick a thermos bottle of fresh brew in my coffin when I die. I gave up smoking but will never give up my coffee. :^)

"Manelli Family" snipped-for-privacy@home.com wrote in news:fo85t3$mib$1 @aioe.org:

I gave up smoking after 30 years but I'm still stuck with my orchid addiction. Like a black hole it sucks me to every orchid sale and sucker punches me at the 50% off table.

speaking of which, while researching a newbie grower lecture i've somehow been swindled into agreeing to give, came across this:

'You can get off alcohol and drugs, but you never get off orchids ...'

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"The more research I did," says Hansen, "the more I came to see them less as criminals than as pragmatic conservationists. You learn a lot in the orchid world."

Truer words were never spoken - or quoted...

Someone should write a murder mystery or spy novel/thriller about the orchid world. But no one would believe it.

Sandra K Moore wrote The Orchid Hunter in 2005 It was to have an orchid on the cover until the editor and artist created another 'flower.' ... ".dedicated her life to tracking down the world's rarest flowers. But finding the Death Orchid was different. The legendary medicinal flower could save her dying uncle -- if she could keep the precious bloom out of her greedy competitors' hands."

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