The message from "Michelle" contains these words:
For that good humoured grace, now you deserve a serious reply.
If you really, really mean that you have something approaching a frog-phobia, or just that they make you feel very tense and panicky, then the best solution is to address that problem in yourself. You can follow a programme of desensitising yourself to the trigger combined with learning coping-techniques, until the problem feelings fade away and no longer bother you. This is very gradual, completely no- threatening, and can be extremely effective. It's what I would do in your circumstances. It's worth it to fully enjoy gardening, your garden and all the magical life within it.
Your doctor should be able to supply a suitable reference.
Janet.