And you're not. I agree that the OP came here, asked for advice on something he/she/it already had a plan to and would not deviate, got advice on how to do it right, and argued all the way through it that his/her/its way was the best and how it was going to be done. So why post in the first place?
Anyone who has done any concrete work at all knows how it is going to go. I hope he/she/it enjoys doing it twice.
And you make it repeatedly clear that you are a basket case that deserves no further attention.
"semi-litirit" ? Is that a trucker throwing out a McDonald's Happy Meal trash on the Interstate?
Adieu.
Steve
Heart surgery pending? Read up and prepare. Learn how to care for a friend.