Resistive loads don't draw ten times their normal current on startup, that's an induction motor starting stalled and even then 10x would be pretty high.
While one should use a dimmer rated for the load, the use of dimmers and similar devices with coffee makers works quite well.
The right place to ask such a question though is alt.coffee, where there are many people with expertise in the management and modification of coffee making apparatus of all kinds, including the fitting of temperature control devices to them.