It's been a long time since I've seen a 1/4hp residential blower motor
1/3 seems to be pretty well standard for heating, with 1/2 HP being very common with A/CIt knows how fast it is turning and how much current it is drawing. The current draw is a direct function of the load on the motor, which decreases as the flow decreases
If you have a belt drive blower you will need to replace it with a direct drive blower, or cobble together some kind of mount and pulley setup.
That's all you do - the learning" is built in.
For more economy of operation. Turning the fan too fast can just draw more power, without moving any more air.
That's fine if you are not trying to enhance efficiency.
Moving less air does not provide fewer BTUs - it just makes the air hotter. Adjusting the amount of flame is what the motherboard you have been cuesing for the last week or two can do. Mine is a 2 stage burner, but there are "modulating" burners as well, that CAN control the amount of heat produced, according to the number of BTUs required (delta between current and desired temperatures)
You just don't (and won't - ever, by the looks of things) get it.