A solution made by dissolving rusty metal in white vinegar will react with the tannins in the wood (of which oak has an abundance), resulting in a black color. A drop of dish soap will lower the surface tension of the solution, when you apply it, so that it will get in to the pores of your oak boards. A little light sanding to knock down any raised grain, then clearcoat. This is one way!
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