In message , John Cartmell writes
And what were they 20 years before you got on the silly ladder? - IIRC, in my fathers early house buying days, it was almost impossible to get a mortgage over about 75%, so help from parents/relatives was essential.
In a roundabout way, not much has changed - except the help from relatives has been replaced with "help" from lenders. Obviously the "help" is more readily available but, unless you are prepared to class housebuyers as stupid, I'm not sure there should be much sympathy for those who take out loans they cant afford.
I would temper that with sympathy for those who may lose their jobs, or become unable to work but, unless we know/suspect something at the time, we cant live our lives based on worst case scenarios, (although some do, of course).