update:
This morning, I did finally remove the control knob but had to use two screwdrivers on either side to lever it off the knob. Limescale I guess must have caused the knob to be 'seized' onto the end of the spindle. There was no retention screw as advised. The leak was due to the gasket having failed, cleaning and refitting didn't totally cure the problem but it was better than the water previouslyl gushing out. (system is mains water pressure fed)
So I bought a new grey cartridge kit which included new gasket/screws etc from Plumbase for =A378.25.
Unfortunately I didnt realise it is also 'recommended' the hot water O ring should be replaced, and I don't fancy taking it all apart again to fit it as it took me ages to refit the inner shroud (I didn't remove the outer shroud/plate which is siliconed to the wall)
Can someone tell me what the usual symptoms are for a failed/worn hot water O ring? I'm not seeing any leaks, or drips from the shower head if that helps. Everything appears to be working as normal but it is early days....
cheers
bill