I am replacing a bathroom vanity with a new one made of red oak so that it will match some existing cabinets. In the past I made the mistake of putting golden oak stain right on sanded oak and you know what happened - the grain jumped out WAY too much (for my tastes anyway). A past contributor to this newsgroup, John Paquay, suggested mixing in stain with a wood filler. He had a very detailed posting which I won't repeat here. I bought some Benwood filler (it was one I saw in Bob Flexnors book) and mixed in 25% stain as mentioned on the can which was the max dilution. I did some test pieces - solid oak and oak plywood. The good news is that the stained grain isn't nearly as dark as when I applied it directly onto sanded oak with no wood filler. The bad news (for me anyway), is that the stained wood is more blonde than the cabinets I hope to match. Applying more stain won't help because the pores are filled. The only other option I can come up with is to mix a darker stain into the wood filler trying to come closer to the cabinets I am trying to match.
Do any of you have some ideas on what I might do?
TIA.
Dick Snyder