We've taken to passing down the collar from our first dog to die to the
ones which have followed. It's a regular 'ol, heavy leather collar but
has the well-worn look of years and years of dog play. It takes a while
for the new dog to grow into it, but after a short time it becomes part
of them and their story while still holding fond memories of those no
longer with us.
. Just keep me and my family in your thoughts
I've read the thread, end-to end. Aside from one POS they all reflect
my thoughts. My wife had to put DiDi (Dumb Dog) down while I was off
on a business trip, 5000 miles away. I couldn't even hold her and say
good-bye, in the oldest meaning (God be with you).
But I have to believe that that brindle lab went to a land of endless
ducks, and a hunter that never misses (oh, those eyes when you miss).
The new dog awaits SWMBO's pleasure, and her transition over pain.
My thoughts, and at this moment tears, are with you. Hang tough,
'cause life is tough, but we do not have to like it at times.
There is little comfort in what others who did not know her, can say
about your Mariah. The only thing I can say is that it does get better
over time. Remember one thing - this is something you do FOR your pet
to stop the pain - NOT something you are doing TO her.
My sympathies for you and your family. Being a pet keeper is
great - about 95% of the time. This is part of that 5% that REALLY
The fact of the matter is that, hard as it is, the most loving
thing you can do is have her put down. From her point of view, she
will go to sleep in the arms of her beloved owner, and the pain and
discomfort will be over. From your point, hard as it is (and, having
had to do this several times myself - I find myself tearing up a bit
as I write this), you have given her many years of happy, fulfilled
life, and have had you and your family's life enriched by her
presence. The best gift you can give her now is that peaceful
with deepest sympathies...
Thanks Dave. I knew I'd find kindred spirits in the Wreck. It's been a
couple of days now and already the hurt has dimminished somewhat (which even
makes me feel worse!). The sound of her last breath will bring tears to me
for the rest of my life. I feel sorry for people that don't understand this
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