I have a small diameter 100 litre DHW tank which in the summer I heat by excess solar PV electricity. It has a 3ft immersion element but as the thermostat is only 18" long less than 1/3 of the tank gets to full temperature.
I had a good solution by adding a Willis cylinder immersion to create an external loop which filled the tank top down. The problem is it is not suitable for this hard water area as the element eventually overheats and fails.
So I have installed a small pump in the external circuit to destratify the tank but I do not want it to totally mix the water to a uniform luke warm, rather just to supply enough cool water into the top of the tank to trigger the thermostat to switch the immersion element on again if there is excess solar PV electricity still.
What I want to know is there a good safety reason, other than being against the manufacturer's instructions, that the thermostat could not be on the neutral side of the immersion element? Then I could use the rise in voltage at the input to the thermostat when it opens the circuit to trigger a relay and run the pump, until the thermostat contacts close and the pump is switched off, usw.
I may need a time delay if the hysteresis of the thermostat leads to the circuit oscillating.