ER no, they end up with LESS actually: you lose benefits when you work.
I dont think they set out to be like that, it happens, and there is no reason *not* to let it happen.
Compare and contrast the 20's and 30's say, where to be an unmarried mother was to be socially beyond the pale, and to get married required that at least the man had a steady job, and enough income before the girl would, quite rightly, consider it.
Or even more than a quick fuumble in teh bushes.
People will always have sex and make babies: Its the easiest thing in the world. There needs to be a strong incentive NOT too. Or else we are all headed for a completely impoverished society. We are GROSSLY overpopulated already.
Harsh individually it may be, but collectively we need to stop supporting childbirth.