As discussed elsewhere. Today I was faced with three choices:
- Do your duties as a carer have no effect on your own life?
- Do your duties as a carer restrict your activities so much that your own life is seriously affected?
- Do your duties as a carer mean that you have no time at all for your own activities?
I wrote "None of the above. My duties as a carer obviously impinge on my own life, but the impact is not great. Your form is badly conceived. The options have gaps between them, into which I would think many people fall."
The woman from the social rung back. She was quite snooty. Said something about 'the difficulty of processing information that wasn't standardised.' She wanted me to opt for one tick box or the other. I was having a bad day anyway. She got under my skin. I'm afraid I said, "Instead of me altering my life to fit your form, why don't you alter your form to fit my life?" She rung off, eventually. The whole thing is a farce anyway. The help we need is means tested anyway, so we won't get it. Basically if you spend your life pissing your money against the wall and shirking any sort of work, when you get old they throw every damned thing at you, but if you've been prudent and kept a few quid in the bank they won't give you a bean. There's people round here that have been on the rock and roll almost all their lives, down the pub every night, Sky, decent holidays, and now they're old and disabled (due to smoking mostly) they get wetrooms, ramps, stairlifts, the lot. What do we get? Sweet f*ck all.
The one thing about forms that really gets me is when they want you to fill in a form on line, but the form has been put together in Word by some council pillock who hasn't learnt how to use 'table'. So she's made the cells the 'right' size by doing a lot of returns in each one. So when you type into it the bloody cell extends downwards off the page. I went to the trouble to convert one blank form to a bitmap, then filled it in using a graphics programme, then converted it to a pdf and sent it. They said it was in an unknown format so they couldn't open it.
Bill