I've got an upstairs hall light with a shared neutral issue, so after my recent consumer unit replacement, the downstairs (half of an original two-way installation) switch has been disconnected.
What I need (I think, I really don't want to start chasing the walls for new physical wiring) is a light fitting that responds to a pair of cordless switches, one to be glued on the wall downstairs, the other upstairs. So that pressing either of them turns the light on/off.
Despite reservations about cordless gadgets in general, I don't mind if the switches have batteries in them, requiring periodic changing.
SWMBO has also found a ceiling light with a "night-light" feature, so that even if switched off, it glows a little after dark. Hopefully that won't complicate things. [At the moment we have a night-light plugged into a 13A socket in the upstairs hall, to help prevent us accidentally falling down the stairs in the dark]