Trying to start threaded fasteners on stiff tubing without cross-threading (For example, flare nuts on soft copper tubing such as used for gas and water supply lines) has been a lifelong frustration. Since it is hard to know when the parts are exactly in line and the side force applied by the tubing doesn't let you tell by feel if the thread has started properly, there's always the fear it may be cross threaded (and sometimes it is). By the very nature of the place you run into these things it will be a major PIA if you screw up the threads and have to replace the whole thing.
So my question
Is there a secret to lining up these parts so you can be confident they aren't cross-threaded?
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