Your being willing to live with things, e.g., a kitchen with unusable space that you lived with for six years, has nothing to do with what things a buyer is willing to live with now. I agree that disposing of working appliances is wasteful but, again, that has nothing to do with whether a buyer wants new appliances. You need to let go of the idea that what you were willing to live with has anything to do with what potential buyers want to live with.
For example, to you it's a big deal that you updated the kitchen in
1988. Maybe you saved and planned for a long time to do it, and you were really happy with the change. All of that is meaningless to a buyer. They don't care that it's nicer than it used to be -- they never had to deal with how it used to be. All they care about is whether it compares well to their vision of what they want now. And frankly, a 1988 kitchen with 1988 appliances does not compare very well to most 2006 buyers' visions.Again, you have only two choices: Give the place today's look, or else give it yesterday's price.
Jo Ann