As I mentioned before, I volunteer in a kindergarten class once a week and generally take 3 or 4 kids to a side area to read to them. There are a few kids who really want to be near me and in the group. One little fella came up to me a couple weeks ago and said, "I wish you were my dad." Melted my heart. A little girl, cute as a bug with red hair and freckles, always positions herself at the rear of the line at the end of the day when we're filing out of the class room and invariably takes my hand as we walk out - I recently found out her father has been in jail for a while now. It's so sad to see the effects of parental behaviors and living situations in guys as little as these 5 and 6 year olds. Whoever says that kids will get over it or that they won't be affected by what's going on has no clue.