Interestingly I don't think the statuary bit of the building regs does call up BS7671 - the approved docs may, but they are not actually binding.
In reality it is very hard to lay down hard and fast rules for some of these things. Cookers, heaters, showers etc are quite easy since they are either fixed loads or loads which average out quite a bit lower than the plate rating due to the influence of thermostatic control. Socket circuits however are far harder to call for domestic settings (at least outside of the kitchen anyway).
Not if you can justify your design criteria.
A good example of what I meant above - you split a circuit for reasons not related to total load, so its safe to assume that in the absence of other changes in use etc, then the total load should be no different from before.
Hopefully the notes make it clear that even if the main fuse were 80A it ought not be a problem.
As to the total, my first thought was to add another ring. That just happened to take the total up to something feasible - while having the extra column way over.