Duane,
Personally, I see little wrong with using recycled lumber, with some caveats. My uncle built his home decades ago and I know that much of the lumber in the house was scrounged. In some mission-critical situations he over-engineered to be on the safe side. For example, he sistered together double beams where single beams would normally be used to hold up the house. Some of those beams that he used were actually retrieved as they floated down the local river. Obviously, the beams were dried and examined before being used. Even so, he sistered them to be on the safe side - why not, they were free.
It seems to me that lumber that has been properly sized on a well- engineered home is going to show little deformation. I believe that your potential contractor's concerns are similar to mine: Messing with the salvaged lumber is more time consuming and riskier. It is much easier for a contractor to hand a bill of materials to a lumber yard and work with the exact quantity of virgin lumber. Even if you remove nails and examine the lumber, he still has several concerns. He is taking the risk that a structural problem could occur and he could face liability issues. Also, he runs the risk of ruining his tools on any nails which fail to get removed. There is also the liability of somebody getting injured from nails which didn't get removed.
Also, the builder has to be concerned with uniform lumber dimensions. The actual size of standard nominal lumber has changed over the years (eg: 2x4 lumber) and some very old lumber may be very non- standard. Also, as another poster has mentioned, very old lumber is much more dense and hence more difficult to work with.
If you are considering doing the work yourself, then work with the salvaged lumber if you consider the price savings to be worth you extra time and effort.
Good luck, Gideon
I mentioned this to the builder I might use and he has really been talking the whole idea of using old wood. He said wood gets compressed over time so, if a piece has been used horizontally, it might not hold if it's used vertically -- as a post, for instance. Then, he mentioned "all the work" of pulling out old nails, etc. He seemed unreasonably down on the idea.
I thought anything that wasn't rotted or split would be useable. Am I hopelessly naive?
Mark