Part one:
We're looking to replace our 20 year old deck. What would be the best material to use? I'm not too fond of composite decking, which leaves either redwood/cypress or salt treated. Any reasons not to lean towards redwood/cypress over salt treated? How about treating the wood? Just the top or the bottom also? I don't want to paint it (a friend did that, it looked good for a while, now he's going through the pains of refinishing it).
The deck is going to be 10x20 and will be around 15' off the ground. We live in Western NC at 2800', the deck faces east and will get dappled sun until around 10, then full sun until 3pm. We do get some snow/ice up here. We spend a lot of time on it, I usually eat breakfast outside and my wife and daughter spend a good chunk of their day hanging out on it.