I bought my first house last spring. It has a large deck that appears to have been painted (quite awhile ago) with a sort of "redwood-looking" paint-type finish (have I got enough modifiers in there?) To me, the finish looks more like paint than anything else (I think of "stain" as something that colors the wood without covering it up), and it has worn off to bare wood on much of the deck's surface. One (mostly exposed) board has started to warp significantly.
Clearly, I need to do something about this. I've been told to start with power washing; I've been told NEVER to power wash (bad for the exposed wood). I've been told just to clean off any loose paint and dirt and paint it again; I've been told NEVER to paint it without completely stripping it first. I've been told I can repaint/refinish with whatever I like; I've been told I must ALWAYS match the type of product last used. You name it, someone has probably told me it's the only way to go.
I would rather have a natural looking wood and if I had my druthers (and a lot of time or money), I think it would look best if all the finish were stripped, the wood scoured back to "raw," stained, and varnished (or whatever finish is used on a deck). Advice? Opinions? Donations? Thanks in advance, Jo Ann