g'day karen,
having 'a' & 'b' trees not totally necessary as all trees will bare male and female flowers at some stage of their fruiting cycle, having the 2 of certain varities extends your fruiting season ie.,. when the 'a' tree has its female flowers the 'b' tree has its male flowers and visa verca.
some varieties don't need 'a' or 'b' ever.
the only thing with a seedling tree is how long before it fruits could take up to 14 years maybe? but the other side and i avhe heard both stories you have no guarantee that the tree will fruit to form or even fruit at all, or at best it may give very poor quality fruit.
if yo realy like avacado's and most of us do the best advice is go buy a grafted tree and if you are short snipped With peace and brightest of blessings,
len & bev
-- "Be Content With What You Have And May You Find Serenity and Tranquillity In A World That You May Not Understand."
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