Joe,
I've endured the beetles for over 3 decades. My approach is peaceful co-existence. The grape leaves look ugly with all of the holes in them, but my crops have always been excellent in spite of the damage to the leaves. In my warped opinion, every hole in a leaf just creates an opportunity for the leaf below to get more sunlight. :)
Very seriously, I don't see any real harm to the plants. Currently, the pesky little bugs are eating my grape leaves for energy, humping one another, and then dining on grape leaves again. Sort of like the insect variety of college students. :)
I still get a great crop and my bigger concern is the bees, wasps, other insects and birds who will be dining on my crop when it matures. That is much more serious. Nets help with the birds, but it is very difficult to keep the insect away.
After the vigorous breeding on my grapes vines, the beetles will move on to deposit their eggs on my lawn and the lawns of my neighbors. The subsequent grubs are a non-trivial problem, but I've even learned to live with that. Of course, that means that there will be a fresh crop of beetles down the road to repeat the cycle.
You are extremely lucky if you've grown grapes for 35 years and you are just encountering Japanese beetles. Others may disagree with me, but I seriously suggest that you just see how you crop turns out in spite of the holes in the grape leaves.
FYI: every year my grape leaves look as if somebody blasted them repeatedly with a 12 gauge shotgun. Ugly, but still very productive.
Treating your lawn for grubs may mitigate future problems, but not very much unless all of your neighbors do the same. Grubs in any nearby lawns will probably produce beetles who will feast on your grape leaves next year.
Good luck, Gideon
PS: Don't forget to harvest some of those tender young grape leaves early next season before they turn tough and before they get eaten by bugs. There are many great uses for tender young grape leaves. I share mine with several neighbors, most of whom reciprocate by sharing the delicacies that they make from the leaves.
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