Dang, I never get that kind of sexual comment in my meetings with commercial developers. The most I'll get is your run of the mill cussing.
Although I just remembered some extremely hot racial opinions thrown out by a New York developer during a meeting I had in Long Island last year. After he left the room, I looked at a coworker of mine and said, "Does this dipshit actually expect us to agree with this garbage?" Not long after that we backed out of the project, not because of that one incident, but because we figured he'd have been too big a pain in the ass to work for. Life's to short to have to do business with people like that.
Don, you should be thankful for such incidents to liven up the average workday. At least it gives you a good story to tell.