Larry,
I may suck, but I think your Gandhi quote pretty much defines how I look at things... you have to make it happen! ;~) Sure location helps a bit but getting out there and doing it is what really counts. I originally met Underhill while working at Colonial Williamsburg, VA but that job only happened because I took a three month solo bicycle trip all over the state of FL and then north to NY. While visiting CW during that trip I went and talked to the master gunsmith and a journeyman gunsmith after a presentation they did. Out of that discussion I ended up getting a job at CW. I met Norm Abram by going to Old Sturbridge Village as the result of one of the parents in our home schooling circle mentioning her seeing a notice he would be there. The list of other prominent woodworkers I've encountered has grown through my association with the Northeastern Woodworkers Association. The association with NWA happened because I showed up at a meeting after hearing about the group from a guy in my sportsmen's club... I was blown away by turned items I saw during Show & Tell (though I'm pretty much a flat boarder at this point) and joined immediately. This same kind of thing has happened for me with other interests because I act on the information I obtain...
I've found that gaining entry to interesting circles is often a matter of showing up and asking! Fortunately, woodworkers in general seem to be pretty open about sharing their Arts and Mysteries, and exchanging ideas with others... Though if you become a pesky leach who never brings anything to the table (even if it's as simple as picking up cookies for the meeting refreshments) you may find yourself somewhat marginalized from the really interesting stuff. ;~) Getting involved may take some effort but I've been well rewarded with wonderful experiences and friends for my efforts. I don't discount this group here either as the thousands of people who have come and gone through here over the years bring ideas and information to my attention... which is how I found out about Woodworking in Action which started this whole thing! ;~)
John