I've recently finished building a mission style desk out of quartersawn white oak and am ready to stain/finish it. After the 100s of hours it took to complete, the last thing I want is to screw up this step, and I've never been particularly good at this last step, so I'm seeking advice.
I'd like to have a deep brown color with a fairly durable finish that is somewhat resistant to abuse, as my kids will likely work at the desk from time to time as well. What I'm hoping that people can provide is specific recommendations for color/brand of finishes that have worked for them, as well as any tips on application technique that I should (or shouldn't) use. I know there's information on these things elsewhere, and I've read a good bit on it, but there are also many contradictions so I'm hoping to learn from someone who has had firsthand success. Of course, I'll be testing whatever people recommend on scrap pieces before the final attempt.
Thanks in advance for any advice!