For the mains bypass relay perhaps look at a circuit built around this...
Others have mentioned cable sizes, this will be a real deal if you choose halogens but LED's or flouresents less so. Fuses etc. (at the source, battery) will be essential. The nice things with LEDs is that you will typicaly have 4 in series from one 12V fed, more if the driver steps up the voltage first, which some do. Back to the Halogens also take a look at 6v Halogens, these coming in smaller wattages and 2 can be wired in series to spread the light over given aera better.
Another light source that is very effcent and youve guessed it expensive is HID, the xenos you see on modern cars. These consume about
30W as opposed to 55W of the halogen it replaced. I think they give twice as much light out. You can find conversion kits on ebay.