An elderly friend has moved into a new retirement home. she said that the shower keeps going cold soon after she gets in. I don't think it will be a shortage of hot water. She describes the shower valve as chrome with two knobs - one for temp and one to turn it off.
I don't have any first hand experience of thermostatic valves (I have a pressure balancing type)but I suspect she may be doing the typical "old person" technique of turning it up full to bring the heat through - and this might be activating some sort of anti-scald device.
I imagine the builders would have fitted a safe unit.
As she is 20 miles away, and it blaming the builders and the modern world, I would like to try and make an appropriate suggestion before she gets too wound up.
Do such showers have a feature that is likely to respond to a high temp by shutting down the hot flow?
I feel inclined to tactfully suggest she sets the temp lower before turning it on.