Thanks to those who got back to me first time round - I turned on topic watching but for some reason I didn't get notification of new messages so I didn't realise anyone had replied. Doh!
Anyway, the original message can be found here if you need a recap
I know enough to keep the system topped up with water (but thanks for the reminder because it needs doing - how often should it be checked?). A note tied to it suggests it should be filled to 1 bar so I fill it to that (+/- 0.1) when the system is cold. When it is fully hot it goes up to maybe 1.75 at most and there seems to be an emergency pressure valve set to 3 bar on top of the red cylinder. I've posted some photos of the system here
In answer to some questions raised above:
The large (1inch?) pipes running to the boiler come in the top and can get viciously hot when the heating is on so I don't think it is a lack of water.
There is certainly no header tank - the system is sealed (I believe unvented is the technical term)
I spoke to a plumber (who never showed up - grrr) on the phone when the problem first appeared. He mentioned the bubble at the top of the hot water cylinder and I have read what it says on the side of the cylinder about establishing the bubble. It sounded sufficiently difficult that I decided to leave it alone (I will try most DIY jobs but I know when to leave it to a pro). There isn't a problem with getting hot water out of the tank so I think the bubble is ok if I understand the system correctly. The tank does need cleaning though as we sometimes get a little dirty / muddy water out when we first draw water after heating but I am happy to leave that for now. I would like more information about this system - I had a look on-line but couldn't really find much. I have done work on vented systems but this is a totally different ball park.
I would be really surprised if low water pressure was totally to blame. Even when the the control box has both switches (bottom right in photo
1) flicked to off and the lights are off the boiler sometimes comes on. I am fairly convinced that the cavatating of the pump (and hence the noise) is then caused because the three way valve is set in the off position so it is pumping against the valve. When this is happening (and thankfully it's been fine for the last few days) we don't get any hot water or heating but the boiler is going 10 to the dozen.Many thanks