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Some of the information you've gotten is bad. This comes from the plumbing newsgroup. First of all, don't put a washer between the head of the bolt and the rubber washer. The brass bolt head and brass washer isn't, of course, a watertight seal.
Secondly, some toilets come with a second rubber washer for under the tank, but most don't. It sounds like you installed it exactly right; leaks just sometimes happen. First of all, does it leak constantly, or only when you flush it? If it leakes constantly, and the water's coming from somewhere between the tank and bowl, then it's either the bolts (and rubber washers) or the flush valve (the big hole in the middle) or the tank might have a hairline crack. Test the big nut that holds the flush valve to the tank to make sure it's snug. The smartest thing to do is to just reassemble it again. Maybe the second time's the charm. If the tank is cracked, you might not be able to see it. One trick would be to color the water with cleaner or food coloring to detect the location.
If it only leaks when you flush it, then it's the connection between the spud gasket (that foam rubber thingy) and the bowl. Again, just reassemble it. The second time's often the charm.
And lastly, if it's a plumbing question, just ask the plumbers instead of the DIYers. It'll save a lot of time and protect you from misinformation.