Well, that statement is not _completely_ true.
Newer, higher power USB 2.0 ports will charge the iPad as will standard USB ports if the computer is awake and the iPad is in sleep mode.
The details can be found here:
We'll have to wait and see if Apple stops including the adapter once high power USB ports are commonplace.
That would be me now that the girls are home from college. When their brothers stop over with their devices it gets even worse. Wires everywhere, adapters missing from where they should be, adapters plugged in but the USB cord missing, etc.
I ended up plugging a power strip into an outlet behind a couch and then tie-wrapping a non-USB adaptor to the strip so it would take effort and tools for any of them to move the charger that I use for my phone. They're free to use it where it is, but they've pretty much got the message that I want it to be where it's supposed to be when I need it.