None of the above.
Plaster shouldn't be painted for about a month, so don't using plaster patching compounds unless they specify a much shorter time for finishing. Better yet, don't use plaster patching compounds at all.
Digging out hairline cracks is a waste of time. You want that hairline to disappear, making it larger is a strange way to go about doing it. That advice comes from years gone by and is for larger cracks.
The best stuff to use is called Krack-Kote. It's fast to apply and dries quickly, hardly _any_ buildup at all so there's no hump in the wall like regular drywall tape and compound would give you, it's available in regular paint stores and you can paint over it almost immediately.