I think you are being a little harsh there Steve, thanks for the concerns, but it seems as though you are attacking the situation in a rude manner instead of offering guidance.
As for the whole b/f issue, if you read earlier, it is a suggestion by him, but I am a very smart, independent person, I was just looking into his suggestion (which I do not think it is the best thing to do at this time, just fix it up and flip it)...it's a buyers market, not a seller's market. He's not abusive or manipulative, he was just giving his opinion and he just gets eager about homes.....(he is trying to do this with his brother, buy homes, fix them up, and either rent or sell them). So he was just offering advice.
I hope I have made that clear to everyone, GEESH!
Plus..... Steve, you are pretty pessimistic, there is a difference of be>>>I believe it is just surface mold.