I agree, this thread is a little surreal. Do the the kids, the dog, the cat, and guests get locked in every time the temp drops to 32 or 0 or -20? I suppose some people stay home from work too, just so the door doesn't get opened? Crazy.
Two armloads of wood should be sufficient per day unless it is well below 0 or somebody is heating their house to 80 degrees or they are heating way more than 2000 square feet.
I don't agree that the temperature of the wood makes much difference. An armload of wood near a wood stove will be up to room temperature in 5-10 minutes and a log thrown in a stove will go from
-20 degrees to 70 degrees before you can recite the pledge of allegiance. In fact some of the bark or the stringy parts will have already caught fire in that time period. It is a non-issue. What is an issue is having a bunch of wood piled around your living room.
It sounds to me like a lot of people are giving advice that have never heated with a wood stove. The biggest issue will be what does the wife want or more exactly what does she NOT want.