Of course! Hence the point of the initial disclaimer in my reply! I just (personally) find it depressing to see folks spending THEIR time (as in their SPECIAL time of life) doing pretty boring things. If you can't *do* something, then, go *see* something, etc.
We have one neighbor (couple) who spend their days going out to eat. But, not to "try new foods"; rather, to avoid cooking! (OK, fine. But, maybe look for foods that won't add to their "rotundity"?? Or, would they NOT like to see grandkid's *4th* birthday? 5th? etc.)
Another neighbor is glued to his PC just surfing the web; his wife abandons him for weeks at a time as she's decided she'd prefer to spend time with her grandkids WHILE they are still interested in her AND she is still capable of interacting with them.
Another spends his days riding his bicycle (leisurely) around town. I *guess* that's better than NOT riding. But, doesn't seem to be much more than watching TV in the grand scheme of things...
Obligations take precedence over personal preferences.
Exactly. And, SUFFER when they are denied access to it (class, church, driving, etc.) "Gee, I wonder if anyone has tried to say something, ANYTHING, to me in the past few minutes that I was unable to catch AT THAT VERY INSTANT because I was busy keeping this vehicle on the roadway..."
I am "terrible" at social functions (obligations) because I will inevitably find someone interesting -- and, then, "pick their brain" trying to learn from their experiences. Some folks delight in this sort of attention fixated on themselves. Others cringe as if it was an *assault*.